Lessons from Ben

I had lunch with Ben Arment today. I have been cyber stalking been through his blog for over a year now. Over the last few months, we have grabbed lunch a couple of times. Both times, I left seeing a couple of things in Ben that I want to see in me. First, he has a way of making the conversation not about himself. Second, he hyper (in a good way) focused on finding his calling and helping others do the same. I guess that if you put those two strengths togehter, you come up with a pretty simple truth to build your life on: When life's not all about you, you can help others find their sweet spot with no fear of its effect on you.

Thanks for lunch Ben.